Monday, October 20, 2008

About A Friend


I want to share something about Brussels today, in fact I already drafted it but there's another thing I think I should write about.

Two days ago, I had a dream. It's about a new friend of mine. I met her last July. She's an old friend of my husband actually. His ex-course-mate that is. But we've been friend the second we met. Then, last Aidilfitri, I've got a shocking news. Something bad happened to her. I didn't know how bad it was but the news itself was bad enough. I keep thinking about her, I went to her blog every now and then but no update. I mean, about her condition. I kept on thinking and waiting, till I had this dream. I called her in the dream, to know how she was doing. She was in front of me but I called her cell instead (that's the funny part). And she answered it! She said her state was very bad. She was about to tell me more and suddenly she had burst into tears. She couldn't talked because she was sobbing and shedding her teardrops at the same time. It explained me how bad she was.

Just now, I went to her blog again, and it was updated! I can't describe how relief I am now. She's regaining her health back, although not recovered yet. This thing takes time, a-many-months time. It took me a year++ to fully recover. Yup, I was there, in her shoes, that's why I know. It wasn't the same thing happened to me but it was similar. I had what they called as 'incomplete abortion'. But it's not me I wanted to write about so let's get it over with.

I just wanted her to be strong, patient, it's not the medicines who makes you recover but something in you. Medicines only help, but it's you yourself makes your body regain your health back (with God's will, insya-Allah). We'll pray for you from afar. God gives us rain but there are rainbow and sunshine after it. Remember, you are the chosen one.




11 comments:

ichigo said...

ida, sedih dira baca entry ida ni!
rupanya ida pernah gugur ye? ida, semuga ida tabah..!

alhamdulillah kawan ida pun sihat!

take care dear!!! dira doakan ida sihat dan ceria selalu! hugs!

Syari said...

Hope your friend will recover soon. "Hidup tak selalunya Indah, langit tak selalu cerah". But there's usually a silver lining along a grey cloud if you look for it. Ada couple, dlm melalui dugaan2 gini, lg tambah erat berbanding dgn yg dah beranak pinak.

comey_lote said...

Dira:
tq dira!a ah pernah tp masa tu naif, tak tahu pun preggy! ida pun happy dah ada berita dari kawan ida tu

kak Syari:
thanks.can't agree more with u..hidup ni byk dugaan, tp selagi kita di duga, selagi itulah tuhan saayngkan kita...having kids is not the only guarantee to be happy in life...huhu, ayat penyedap hati..

Emy said...

ida, kita sama2 doakan mc da.. aku selalu berharap dia ada kt sini, bukan senang kt aku, tp senang jgk kt family dia nk tgk2kan..

comey_lote said...

semoga dia cepat sembuh. kesian dan sedih rasa. dah la baru sampai, belum lagi settle down, rumah belum dapat...tuhan je tau mcmana rasa duk kat hotel lama2.kalau bercuti dok kat hotel tak pe...ni berumah tangga kat hotel...lepas sakit pulak..rasa mcm nak je ajak yusman pegi lawat dia kat sana...

Emy said...

ida, ko kalau nk g dublin tu berapa dekat? ajak2 la seme, kot2 dia prihatin! hahahah... mati la aku kene maki ngn dia kalau kutuk dia nie...

yatispeed said...

sedihnya mimpi ko tu ida...it's a symbolic way of her that time..ajakla seme gi tengok dia behalf of us..

nina said...

love love love..
been there ida.. not once, but twice b4 johan.. johan himself pun such a journey, lain hari boleh cerita.. anyway, life does not stop there.. Allah works wonder, miracle happen, we don't know what is install for us in future kan.. make the best of what u hv now kan kan kan tak gitu cik ida...aminnnnnn.....

comey_lote said...

emy:
dekat jek...flight pun sejam lebih je..tp tambangnya tak le murah mana..

yati:
nk pegi tp bila pk2 balik,kalau gi sekejap buat apa, takleh tolong jaga jugak..lgpun tambang flight kalau tak book dr awal mahal gak

kak nina:
heard some of ur story (baca kat multiply u pun ada gak). yup,we should just be grateful for what we have now..

Y@ZeD@ said...

tq ida 4 d entry n d dream..

kelaka ler plak smpi termimpi2..tp agak2 time tuhh mcda mmg tgh sakit yg amat ler kann...

alhamdulillah, now dh semakin sembuh.. tp still sakit jugak kadang2 ngilu.. nak2 plak dh semakin sejuk nihh kann...

tkpe, tkyah datang lagik ekk.. mcda dok hotel lg susah nk entertain plak..hehehe...
nti dh ada umah, br ida n yusman dtg, leh tolong masak... huhuu...

nway, really appreciate it..
luv u..

salam sayang..

comey_lote said...

Alahamdulillah, lega dgr mcda dah beransur sembuh!
tu lah yg ida fikirkan...kalau pergi sekarang nk melawat,takut jadi menyusahkan korg pulak...

mcda jaga diri ok, rehat bebanyak, jgn buat kerja berat wpun rasa larat dah...